# I don't recognize.
Me: Hello?
Her: It's "Ms. S"
(Shocked that I'm getting a phone call from Ms. S. I deleted her number so i didn't recognize it and I thought it was someone else calling me back. That's why I answered the phone. She didn't return my e-mail I sent on May 2. So, I figured she wanted no more communication).
Me: What's going on?
Her: I just wanted to know if that e-mail you sent me on May 2 was meant for me because it wasn't addressed to me.
(Formed a GTHOHWTB expression on my face).
Me: If I sent you the e-mail, it was meant for you. But you never responded...so I'm a little shocked by the phone call. Because I took no response to my e-mail as you not wanting to communicate with me anymore.
Her: That's all I wanted to know.
(Then she said goodbye and hung up).
About 10 minutes later. I sent her a text and asked if she was alright. She replied "I'm good." That was the end of the communication for the night...and let's hope ever again.
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WTH is up with women contacting me months later after one of us has cut off communication.
You remember Dana? and her BS contacting me 5 months after she gave me the runaround over a second date.
Now, Ms. S calling me to confirm that I sent an e-mail over a month ago. Why didn't you respond to my friendly e-mail in May and ask if this was really meant for you? In a weird meltdown of sorts, Ms. S deleted her facebook account, took text messaging off her phone and cut herself off from the world so to speak after I told her I was frustrated and couldn't continue dating her. So, either she lied to me about cutting off text messaging or she just added it back because I didn't expect her to answer the text but I was just curious to see what the response would be...if any.
I had a laugh about this with my boys on Friday night while drinking. They came to the conclusion that she must miss me and wanted to hear my voice. There is no other logical reason for her to call me A MONTH and some change later to confirm an e-mail when she simply could have sent a reply to my e-mail.
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You know what I do to avoid such uncomfortable conversations? Instead of deleting their numbers, save them as DON'T ANSWER. That way, you never accidentally pick up. After about 6 mos., you can usually go in and actually delete. I hope this helps!
@sistah1. lol. I thought about that too. But what if they call you from a number you didn't already have for them? My policy is...I usually don't answer a phone number I don't recognize when I'm not expecting a phone call back from someone. But I guess it is comforting to know she was thinking about me.
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